i thrive in one-on-one relationships. i find it hard to accommodate everybody, to treat everybody equally or not to scout for a partner in crime buddy in a group. having lots of friends is a lovely thought but like having a number of admirers only one them will the spouse of beauty.
contrary to that thinking, i always endeavor for the best friendship to share with anybody that God will bring into my life. while everybody is welcome to be my friend i would not force any to stay. if proximity is not the issue, i will not leave a friend cause i hate the feeling being abandoned and left alone. being forsaken once, twice or more is not a barrier for a new start.
friends leave:
1. change of residence
2. caught up in busyness
3. unknown reason
in the absence of communication, friendship fades and becomes bland but it will not die nor end. it will survive even when the friend is gone. it will be considered a happy memory and not just a part of history.
i am just a text away
and i promise not to be a pest
i will hold you dear
though at times you do not care
if to say hi is so taxing to you
don't worry i completely understand
what keeps me hopeful?
someday we would walk together in the Holy land
God bless you my friends :)
God said "it is not good for man to be alone".
Dux said "it is dreadful to be alone and lonely".
you are right, ilda. it is dreadful to be alone and lonely when you can be with a lot of people. as they say, no man is an island. its a whole lot better to be surrounded with friends. and thank you for being one - for the constant gudnite msgs and bible passages, for the prayers, for being my study buddy at times, for keeping some of my secrets, for sharing your notes n past exams without me asking and for everything, it is appreciated. labyu, duxie! =)
ReplyDeleteaba ang nag goodnight ng maaga ay tinira nanaman ni insomnia our common enemy.
ReplyDeletebitaw janey i am very blessed to have you as one of my trusted friends in school :)
love is what we have and love is what we shall give.
grace and mercy of God be upon you always.